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Tuesday, January 29, 2013

What's a Mama to Eat?



Vitamins - What they do and where to find them.
 Eating nutritiously in pregnancy is essential.  Many mamas, they know they could make some improvements, but get overwhelmed.  With so many popular diets, it’s hard to even figure out where to begin.  You may feel that you are pretty healthy already, just unsure of how to determine if you are getting enough of the good stuff.  If there is room for improvement in your daily habits, where to even start with better foods?  It’s not about spending more money or spending all day in the kitchen.  It is about eating more plant-based whole foods and protein.  Many experts say that our brains and gut systems developed as a result of eating mostly animal proteins.  It is possible for you to remain healthy on a vegetarian or vegan diet, too, though the latter does require several supplements to get all the nutrients you and your growing baby need. 

All that goes to say this: stop buying boxes of prepackaged foods.  They are loaded with salt (many MSG), refined sugar, high fructose corn syrup, and other preservatives and fillers that our bodies were not designed to break down into useful fuel.  Shop the edges—produce, meat, and refrigerator sections.  We all know those lovely displays of junk food impulse buys strategically placed around the more healthy choices.  Go to the farmer’s market.  I often go to the market under the bridge in Biloxi on Tuesday and Thursday until 2pm and the one in the Ocean Springs Chamber of Commerce parking lot on Saturdays until 2pm.  




For all of this, you do not have to spend more.  Prepackaged goods are expensive and so are grain products without the critical nutrients found in fresh, whole foods!  Set a weekly grocery budget and do the best you can.  I think you’ll be surprised how far it goes when you stop buying the majority of your food in boxes, jars, bags, and cans.  Herbs are expensive to buy in the store.  They grow great in pots, though and are an affordable way to add loads of flavor and nutrition without salt-loaded processed seasonings.  Fresh vegetables, fruits, dried beans, and unsalted nuts and seeds have far more nutrients than bread.  Period.  If your fruits and veggies start getting overripe, throw them in the blender with some almond or coconut milk and make a smoothie.  They are delicious.  You won’t even notice the spinach, but you’ll be getting all the benefits of eating it. 

Be open-minded.  Try new things.  Go to the store with a meal plan for the next few days.  Going to the store or market (yes, there are booths of sweets and treats at the farmer’s markets) pregnant, hungry, and without a plan is often disastrous.  Just like you plan a baby registry for what you’ll need once this baby arrives, plan for nutrition—the best you can do every day.  Plan to eat healthy fats, colorful raw or steamed vegetables, fresh fruit, less dairy, more protein.  You will be giving your baby what he or she needs to thrive now.

Here are our simplified nutrition tips:
1         Eat lots and lots of fruits and vegetables—at least 2 cups of each every day.
2.       Make sure you get plenty of protein from a wide variety of sources.  Aim for 75-100 grams of protein    each day. 
3.       Stay hydrated—that means water maybe with citrus or mint for flavor, no artificially sweetened flavor packets added. 
4.       Limit all processed foods to special treats. This includes anything that you purchase that has ingredients added before you buy it. 
5.       Give up sodas, diet and otherwise.  There is too much evidence linking even moderate soda consumption to both depression and high blood pressure.  We don’t want you to experience either of those.


After you have incorporated these tips into your life, seek our more information.  You can contact us for more resources.  Our students and doula clients may also borrow books from our library.  We are also building a list of links to healthful recipes.  We'd love to add your favorites to it!

I am *not* a nutritionist.  If any of these suggestions conflict with your care provider’s suggestions, default to your provider or go to them with questions.  Request a consultation with a nutritionist specifically for your pregnancy.  This is something I think every pregnant woman should do, even the most healthy and fit.  You never know what you are lacking, and no prenatal vitamin makes up for poor eating habits.

Better Recipes

After the recent post on nutrition, we though you might like some recipes to get you going in the right direction on that improvement plan.  For me, finding new dishes to try can be the hardest part.  My family and I have tried many of these and found them tasty and filling.  Everybody should be able to find something they like here.  If you are a meat eater, just add your favorite healthfully cooked cut to a meatless dish for a complete meal.

This list will be a constant work, so please send us your favorites to add to the list
bianca@betterbeginningsMS.com
kate@betterbeginningsMS.com


 Meatless




Meat
 


Slow Cooker
 


Lunch




Breakfast


Treats

Thursday, July 26, 2012

Wise Women Surround You


Women love telling you about their births, especially if you are pregnant.  None of us will make the exact same decisions, just as we will labor differently, and mother our children differently.  

The wisdom of experience and hindsight are pretty incredible.  Do you know what the mamas around you have to say?  You might be surprised what a simple, casual question brings out. 

There are wise women all around you.   Here’s what a few I know had to say in response to this question:

What is the one thing you wish you'd known before having your baby? What is the one factor that most influenced the path you took?

·        * Before having baby #1 - I wish I'd known I was actually in charge of the decision making. What influenced the other birth (5) experiences - knowing that I was in charge of making decisions. 
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      * I wish I'd know that I didn't have to go to the hospital the same day that I started leaking fluid...I knew we didn't have to go immediately (no fever, fluid was clear, nothing in rule, baby moving), but I still majorly increased my risks going to the hospital too early.
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       * I wish I had known more about my "high risk" status and what exactly ruled me out of a VBAC. I researched...but military docs aren't exactly forthcoming about the info. If I had honestly known where the best info was, I might have done a home birth with my 2nd.
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      * How little support you actually get from nurses and doctors...even the good ones just aren't there to hold your hand like you might need/want. 
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            * How long it takes to feel normal again.
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       *The difference between using my OB/GYN (first two pregnancies) vs. my midwife (last pregnancy).  Felt valued more with my mid-wife and less stressed (course having a 3rd baby - you already feel like you've been there done that after two babies so that might play into the lower stress experienced).  I felt more like a cow being herded in and out with my OB/GYN.  Only thing missing was a bell around my neck.  My midwife took time to really listen, devoted an hour to each appointment and made sure my labor was as even/balanced (for lack of a better word) than like an appointment.
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     * I, too, wish I’d been in charge of the decision-making for the 1st time around...2nd time around, the factor that most influenced my experience (for the better!) was the decision to have "people", ie: support people (you!) we knew would be there to help us through the process. It took so much of the stress out of the situation knowing I had experienced women available as a network of support before, during, after. Support team = awesomeness :)
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I    * wish 1st time around I'd known about the euphoria and sense of empowerment and achievement that hits you like a train the instant you push that baby out of your body! I honestly feel this got me through my labour and birth of my second child with much more ease knowing what was to come. It's truly amazing what a woman's body is capable of if we just listen to what we feel we need to do..... I was so glad that my first birth was midwife led in the UK, as that gave me the confidence to go for a completely natural birth here in the USA with my second child.
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     *Not going straight to the hospital when you start leaking and how awful induction is.  I had not planned for induction and didn't realize how much harder it is.
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          * That due dates are crap and inductions are very, very rarely a good idea. Oh and that the throw away underwear that come with the enormous pads at the hospital really are fabulous and you should steal a lot before you leave if you hospital birth! Home birthers-ask your midwives to find you some!! The number one factor that affected my experience was care provider. Didn't research cesarean rates on him etc and guess who had a cesarean?...
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            * My three boys' natural births took place in hospitals (Univ. Hosp. Bonn and Asuncion) and, all tardy by almost 2 wks, were just fine and like I wanted them to be…maybe I was lucky but I actually like hospitals and doctors (Daddy's girl :-). In the private Latin American hospital a funny thing was that in 1995 the nurses asked me whether all women in Germany have babies "peasant style" (ie natural, no appointment for cesarean and topped by breast feeding..) Phases and fashions, a lot of it, plus economics...
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       *That you need the giant pads after delivery! My poor husband had the pharmacist at Walgreens trying to help him get what I needed. He was totally clueless and stressed.
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      *My third was born at home in the quiet (except for me) and being mobile and changing positions really helped! I wish I had known all the things that go on "behind the scenes" when you give birth at a hospital with the first two.
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           *  There is a pain threshold and you can go over it and medicine will not control it. Induction is not any fun- and you should just wait and not be induced no matter how impatient you are!  My husband had to wait a long time while the doctors and nurses prepared me for the c section and he said that he got very nervous because it took a long time- and they started the surgery without him until I started screaming .
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          *I wish I'd know that I could've said no to a 3 week early induction, or at least asked her to wait until after I'd had a large meal so I would have the energy for L&D.
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 I    *In the end, I was satisfied with how things happened but would probably not choose induction if the exact scenario played out. My AFI was a 2 and my husband and I were frightened, which is why I opted to induce, but she was strong and my body responded so well with minimal drugs that I feel very confident that I would have gone into labor on my own at any moment of I had just waited. That is probably my biggest lesson from this and hopefully a sentiment you can share.

What do you wish you would have know?  Please add yours in the comments below.